Cuddle Cot Placements
We help place Cuddle Cots with care facilities so families can have precious time to hold, honor, and say goodbye to their babies.
Learn about the $3 campaignA 501(c)(3) public charity
Our mission
United Mothers of Loss Foundation meets grief with compassion, dignity, remembrance, and practical support. We create welcoming spaces, provide free educational resources, and develop programs that honor enduring love while helping families find connection.
Care without expectation or judgment.
Honoring the love that remains.
Making room for light, gently.
What we do
Our charitable programs offer tangible comfort, meaningful remembrance, education, and peer connection for people navigating pregnancy, infant, child, loved-one, and pet loss.
We help place Cuddle Cots with care facilities so families can have precious time to hold, honor, and say goodbye to their babies.
Learn about the $3 campaignCare packages and memory boxes offer comforting keepsakes and a tangible reminder that every baby and loved one matters.
See remembrance careVolunteers create handmade items for angel babies, supporting families with tenderness, dignity, and remembrance.
Visit the volunteer pageFree guides and moderated peer communities help people find information, validation, and compassionate connection.
Explore free support
The forthcoming book
A compassionate companion for moving through grief while holding close the memories, love, and enduring connection that loss can never erase.
The paperback is scheduled for release on Amazon on September 1, 2026. No advance copies are currently available. The Foundation is the publisher, and the Foundation's share of proceeds supports its charitable mission and programs.
Grief resources
Begin wherever you are. These resources are free to keep and return to whenever you need them.
Free guide

Compassionate information about rainbow babies, sunshine babies, pregnancy after loss, and ways loved ones can provide meaningful support.
Download the Free GuideCompassionate support
Grief deserves care. Explore gentle reminders for finding personal, community, or professional support.
Read Support GuidanceThese resources offer general grief support and are not a substitute for medical or mental health care.
Support communities
Active, compassionate communities provide support for pregnancy loss, stillbirth, miscarriage, infant loss, pregnancy after loss, postpartum after loss, and other forms of grief.
A compassionate community for mothers navigating pregnancy and infant loss.
A welcoming space for remembrance, connection, and support after loss.
A compassionate community for anyone grieving the death of a beloved pet or animal companion.
Support for the physical and emotional postpartum journey following loss.
Connection for trying to conceive, pregnancy, and parenting after loss.
A caring community for mothers grieving the loss of a child at any age.
An honest, supportive space for mothers whose babies were lost in the womb.
Visit the Foundation page for news, resources, remembrance, education, and ways to connect.
Visit the volunteer page for creating handmade items for angel babies.

Comfort delivered with compassion
Our Remembrance Care Packages are thoughtfully assembled to bring comfort, remembrance, and a gentle reminder that no grieving parent or family has to walk this journey alone.
Please note: This photograph shows Care Package No. 1 as an example. Because some items are handmade, seasonal, or donated, colors, designs, brands, and individual contents may occasionally vary. Every package will always be prepared with the same care, compassion, and purpose.
Request support for yourself or a grieving family, sponsor a complete package, or contribute any amount toward the charitable care-package program.

About Diane
Diane Cassi is the author of Turning Loss Into Light™, Founder and CEO of the United Mothers of Loss Foundation, and a certified grief coach. Her work is centered on creating spaces where grief is acknowledged with dignity, loved ones are remembered, and families can find compassionate connection.

About the foundation
IRS-recognized 501(c)(3) public charity · EIN 99-1997847
Founded by Diane Cassi and based in Redford, Michigan, the Foundation provides compassionate grief resources, support communities, remembrance and care packages, memory boxes, the Sleeping Bags for Angels volunteer program, and Cuddle Cot placements that give grieving families precious time with their babies.
Our community sponsors
We are deeply grateful to the businesses whose generosity helps the United Mothers of Loss Foundation continue turning loss into light for grieving families.

Tristate Radon Services

Step Funeral Home
Partner with our foundation
Sponsorship helps the United Mothers of Loss Foundation turn compassion into meaningful support for families experiencing pregnancy and infant loss.
Your partnership helps provide Cuddle Cot placements, memory boxes, grief resources, care packages, and supportive communities—giving grieving families more time, comfort, dignity, and remembrance during some of their most difficult moments.
Whether you sponsor an entire program, contribute toward a Cuddle Cot placement, or support us at another level, your generosity makes a lasting difference. We would be honored to partner with your business or organization.
Become a Sponsordiane@umlfcollabs.orgLeadership grounded in compassion
Each member brings lived experience, care, and a shared commitment to ensuring grieving families never have to walk alone.

President
I am a wife and stay-at-home mom of three with a heartfelt commitment to supporting mothers who have endured the unimaginable pain of losing a child. Having walked this path myself, I offer a warm, compassionate ear and a safe space where mothers can share openly, find comfort, and remember that they are not alone.

Treasurer
I am a dedicated military wife and Michigan native who is passionate about providing meaningful support for women during times of loss. I bring financial care, integrity, and heartfelt commitment to the Foundation’s mission.

Independent Director-at-Large
Kamakalani provides independent governance, thoughtful oversight, and a compassionate voice in support of the Foundation’s mission and the families it serves.

Independent Director-at-Large
Kaitlin provides independent governance, thoughtful oversight, and a compassionate voice in support of the Foundation’s mission and the families it serves.

Comfort, remembrance, and love
Each United Mothers of Loss Foundation memory box is thoughtfully assembled to offer grieving families gentle comfort, meaningful keepsakes, and a tangible reminder that their baby will always be remembered.
Help Provide a Memory BoxHelp us turn loss into light
Donations help the United Mothers of Loss Foundation provide grief resources, memory boxes, care packages, volunteer programs, and Cuddle Cot placements for families navigating unimaginable loss.
Every gift, at every amount, helps us remind grieving families that they do not have to walk alone.
Donate Securely Through ZeffySmall gifts, shared purpose
When 1,125 people each give just $3, together we can raise the $3,375 needed for another Cuddle Cot—giving grieving families precious time to hold, honor, and say goodbye to their babies.
Give $3 Through ZeffyLivestream and events
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View Foundation UpdatesFoundation moments
A growing collection of deliveries, programs, remembrance, and the compassionate people helping us carry light forward.



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